“In custody matters, the law does not seek to reward or punish either parent—it seeks to protect the child.”
This is the foundational philosophy that guides Indian courts when deciding child custody disputes. At the heart of it lies a principle that has come to define the very essence of such litigation: the welfare of the child.
In the emotionally charged atmosphere of matrimonial breakdowns, child custody battles are the most sensitive and contested. But Indian courts are clear—the contest is not between the parents; it is about securing the future and welfare of the child.
The Legal Doctrine: ‘Welfare of the Child’
The welfare principle is not merely aspirational; it has statutory backing under several Indian laws. Section 13 of the Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956 categorically states that in the appointment or declaration of a guardian, “the welfare of the minor shall be the paramount consideration.” Similar provisions exist across other personal laws, and the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890, which applies regardless of religion, reinforces the supremacy of the child’s welfare over other considerations.
This welfare includes not only the child’s physical comfort but also emotional security, moral upbringing, social development, and continuity in education. The courts adopt a holistic approach, examining the child’s needs in the present and future.
Judicial Interpretation: The Child Comes First
A leading case that clarified the approach of Indian courts is Roxann Sharma v. Arun Sharma, (2015) 8 SCC 318. In this case, the Supreme Court of India ruled that the mother of a minor child, below five years of age, is presumed to be the most suitable custodian, unless proven otherwise. The Court reiterated that the father’s right is secondary to the welfare of the child. While interpreting Sections 6 and 13 of the Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act and Sections 7 and 17 of the Guardians and Wards Act, the Court held that statutory preference must give way to the overriding concern of the child’s welfare.
The judgment observed:
“While considering the issue of custody of a minor, the Court is expected to be guided by the sole and paramount consideration of what would best serve the interest and welfare of the minor.”
This case is significant not only for emphasizing maternal custody for very young children but also for articulating how statutory rights of guardianship can be overridden when they do not serve the child’s interest.
Application in Practice: Factors Considered by Courts
While the law speaks of ‘welfare,’ the courts examine various aspects to translate this concept into a practical decision. The child’s age is one of the first considerations. Young children, particularly below five, are generally considered better off with the mother unless she is proven unfit.
The preference of the child, particularly if the child is of sufficient maturity (generally above nine years), is often heard in chambers. However, the court remains vigilant against parental influence or coaching and may refuse to follow the child’s expressed wish if it appears unnatural or harmful.
The financial capacity of each parent is relevant, but it is not decisive. Indian courts have repeatedly held that a financially weaker parent should not be denied custody if they can offer a loving and stable environment. Conversely, material wealth without emotional security is never preferred.
Courts also examine the character and conduct of each parent. Any history of abuse, cruelty, addiction, or violent behaviour is weighed heavily. The mental and physical health of the parent, as well as their ability to prioritize the child’s needs, are assessed.
Importantly, the continuity of the child’s education and living environment is prioritized. Courts are reluctant to uproot a child from familiar surroundings unless the change offers a demonstrable improvement in the child’s welfare.
Modern Trends: Shared Parenting and Evolving Norms
While traditional custody orders focused on sole custody to one parent, Indian courts are now increasingly open to joint custody and visitation plans that maintain the child’s bond with both parents. In Gaurav Nagpal v. Sumedha Nagpal, (2009) 1 SCC 42, the Supreme Court emphasized that the child should not become a tool of bargaining between parents and that both parents have a role in upbringing unless one is found unfit.
The Court stated:
“The child’s future has to be the main concern of the court. Custody should be with the parent who can ensure stability, security, and emotional warmth.”
This progressive trend, coupled with the introduction of parenting plans in various High Court judgments, reflects a move towards co-parenting, even post-divorce.

